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The Dethroned Prince
The arrival of a brother or little sister to the family can be a very hard time for his firstborn. To date, he or she has been the center of attention, pampering and attention of parents and now, suddenly, overnight, you have to cede some of its space to a new little person, crybaby that spends too much time in the arms of his mother.
As much as nine months, parents have been warning the eldest son to the arrival of a sibling and I have tried to share in his joy at the new paternity, the child fails to understand that emotion, not even able to guess how will change your situation.
Jealousy is inevitable feelings. There are children that can get worse and others better, but everyone will feel somewhat displaced, underserved and dethroned. Sooner or later they will become accustomed to their new situation, to share the love of parents, aunts and uncles and grandparents with this baby that everybody says you have to want.
It is possible that since the birth of new child or even weeks before you leave the belly of her mother, the child to be irritable, cuddly, with absurd tantrums and anger. He senses that something is happening but you can not understand it. They see and hear our comments and our responses, although we think we are distracted. They gather information and begin to feel insecure.
Be very tactful and very patient with older siblings when a baby arrives home. We must be attentive to our actions and demonstrations of affection and make an effort to give equal attention to both. For parents it is a difficult time but we do know that we love them both equally, while the eldest son can doubt and think that we want more small.
For them it is even harder and complicated, fare worse than we imagine, so we must try to be more sympathetic to his irrational behavior as possibly just want to call and retrieve the attention that is taking her little brother.
Goodbye to the Disobedient Children
Your children will not ignore you? Are tantrums whenever you’re in public? Are they aggressive? Do not want to sleep at night? Are they difficult to mealtime? Nina Hofman, the babysitter called ABC program ‘Supernanny’ gives his tips to control unruly children.
Although it seems impossible, Jo Frost, a British nanny with 15 years of career experience and a totally oriented to the education of children, shows how you can have a wonderful family with children disciplined and above all happy, even with the most difficult children.
Children rather than impossible
Since children do not want to sleep aggressive children who are disrespectful to both parents and siblings. With an extremely easy to implement technique, Jo Frost does the kids were well behaved, happier and with a familiar rhythm worthy of the highest accolades. All this in just two weeks!
An easy technique to implement
Steps to follow:
1. Structuring the day to the last detail to begin implementing a rhythm in the house for children translates into compliance and security
2. Every time a child should be ignored:
a. Lowering the level of the child’s eyes
b. Saying that the act or gesture is not acceptable (looking into his eyes)
c. Use a firm tone but quietly
3. If the child repeats the act is not desirable
4. He takes the child to a chair, rug or room for misconduct
5. The child is left there 1 minute for each year or if you have 3 years would be 3 minutes, during which no one speaks to him
6. At the end of the period prisoner, you have to ask if he knows why is there and if you are not sure why
7. After the child has to look into your eyes and give you a pardon
8. End with a hug and a kiss
In just two weeks
Implementing these steps by both parents (especially the father who spends more time with children) children just obeying. Best of all, the screaming just completely, the family begins to function without tension, nervousness and anger continued.
A family where the children end up being happier in the day to day because they know well the limits of what is allowed and what not and what the consequences mommy or daddy to disobey.
Children in the Midst of a Struggle Paternal
the weather and people’s attitudes change and may be able to achieve other, another personality.
Can a change of heart in a partner to lose his way in the relationship and now start to drag the children who are suffering all these changes.
Children born into a family made do not understand when this is destroyed, when parents fail to look ahead by two and the family and begin to create an individual world.
Each party is responsible for what happens to him or the children of the couple is known and it is very likely that children are in the middle of everything, because when the couple makes the decision to separate is when born at that moment a ruthless competition until it comes to custody of children.
There are parents who can come to an end but unfortunately they are the minority, it is rare that an agreement is reached where parenting is shared and no more problems than normal.
As for who should be the one who carried their activities, school, football, or in case of music or other girls should be on duty and never stop if there is interest in participating in the lives of their children, seek the happiness of the children is to ensure our own.
Family Travel Tips
If you’re planning a family trip and you have small children it is important to plan well in order to avoid last minute problems and have everything you need if you have any planned.
Family travel can be a great experience not only for children but also for adults. If you go with babies and children is important to take some considerations whether you travel by car if traveling on another mode of transport, train or plane.
- Prepare a kit of some drugs that do not require a prescription but can help in cases of dizziness, headaches or allergies.
- If you travel in the summer remember to always include a sunscreen for children must use a high-factor, it is recommended over 30, do not forget the insect repellent or mosquito.
- You must wear a hat or cap to protect the baby from the sun.
- If you travel by car or aa car, take it to review, check tires and especially system and do not forget the car seat or booster seat for your baby or small, remember that their use is mandatory if you go with children in the car .
- If you’re traveling to another country, it is important to find out if you need vaccinations against disease, and thus avoid being now abroad.
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