Many children are not liars serious behavior problems are more or less helpful. Others are dishonest, aggressive with friends and discuss with adults. Although there are individual reasons for the behavior of each child or adolescent, all distinguished by a number of common characteristics:
- They are insecure children and manipulate others to hide this insecurity. Pretend to be very interested in something, but do not care. They often play the role of “know”. They laugh at the people and work hard to make a good impression, even bowing to peer pressure. They come to the worst extremes, as long as the attention of others. Sometimes to make the case because they need love, and to test other adults, thus proving their reactions.
- Never to fulfill their obligations and are masters in the “now I do and never comes.” They are always convincing others to perform tasks for him and never work unless someone is at his side. Of course, we can not expect children and adolescents reveals all her feelings and thoughts. Adults, we do not. We behave one way in public and another in private. What happens is that these children, when he plays tell the truth about their feelings, they hide their true personality, even to their relatives. As the child lying to others is considered insignificant, you need to ensure that attracts attention, creates situations so that they lay down in it. Most often, adults do not understand their reactions and that causes it, a negative result.
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