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Cultivating Respect And Admiration of Your Children
Parenting
From childhood we must express our children as we are concerned. No matter how busy you are, there is always a way to be an exemplary father, and while they wish.
Organize your schedule and take time to listen. Pay attention if you feel very tired or in between other activities.
Be a father reliable. Knows the thoughts of the little, tastes, fears, and who are their best friends. Having that close relationship will help you understand when you reach adolescence.
Looking for a man of his word. Do not fill their children with promises never fulfilled. This behavior hurts them deeply.
Equilibria your emotions. Act with severity against their bad behavior can frighten and prevent their being opened next time. The real fix is ??what is done with love.
Play with them but prefer to look at the paper in place or take a nap. The kids enjoy with their parents these days feel accompanied and valued.
Couples come to an agreement on child rearing. It is a mistake to believe that only the father has little authority to instruct, encourage your wife to take that responsibility too.
Children’s Parents Act Like Children
When the potatoes do not want to exercise their role as parents complicate things in the house and the children come into crisis, as rules and structures that should have are disrupted or lost.
This reality is more common than you think and occurs in families where there is a fear of conflict and great personal insecurity.
“These are parents who fear that the link established with the children is not strong enough and believe, that will not abide by placing limits. They have a deep fear that their children do not want your anger or bring order, “says Sandra Gelb, a psychologist and academic director of the school of psychology at the Universidad de los Andes
In this sense, the psychologist finds that not to take on parenting is a comfortable position as the paternity would postpone their own needs and satisfactions to give priority to the needs of children.
“They are immature parents who did or did not go mourning the loss of his teens, then delegate their responsibilities to older siblings, grandparents, babysitters or anyone who is willing to do,” he adds.
The fact also occurs when there are family issues that affect family life and duties attached to it is inappropriate to smaller displacement causing a severe roles. “The concern is that when that child grows, you may continue with that idea or pattern of rearing and from there you see that parents have a horizontal relationship with the children, there are no boundaries and roles are disrupted,” says psychologist Charles Mateluna Miretti (cmateluna@gmail.com)
The situation is complex and involves immediate consequences. The children or teenagers when they would forget their interests, unfocused.
“They lose part of their development and childhood fun is curtailed by having to meet the needs of others and end up skipping stages of growth,” said Gellb.
So in a minute of his life, they say, want to live what they have not lived, becoming eternal teenager or become old boys or “stupid serious” super sets that do not enjoy anything.
On the other hand, Carlos Mateluna Miretti indicates that if the parents are their children’s children become a kind of relationship will be repeated even can be transferred from generation to generation. “We think it is normal, until you are certain situations that life brings, the person will realize that it has taken over instances that did not correspond.”
Realize time
Usually the parents act this way unconsciously and only acknowledge receipt of your mistakes when children begin to grow and have their first problems when entering the school. It is in this instance when parental performance would be measured.
“These are children who has trouble following rules, adapted or have no clear sense of authority. In adolescence is noticed when trying to educate or prosecute but the kids are reluctant, “says psychologist Sandra Gelb.
To sort the roles, before the chaos becomes routine, therapeutic work should be focused more on parents than the children. “Adults have to show that children can not take care of situations that do not concern them because it disrupts the development of life,” Carlos Mateluna Miretti illustrated.
In that sense, Gelb Sandra complements that children must be friends of his parents, have confidence in them, “but must recognize some authority and some distance from them, otherwise there is much confusion.” Without a doubt, parenting requires effort and perseverance but sometimes set rules and limits are not easy tasks to undertake.
Interprets Drawings of your Children
drawing interpretation is a favorite pastime for most children. Through drawing, children can communicate a number of things. Find out more about drawing in children and especially what we can know through him.
The first thing to know is that the analysis and interpretation of the drawings of a child can only be done by a professional trained in the subject, such as a child and adolescent psychologist or psychiatrist. However, there are some signs in the drawing can help children to know and understand it better.
Through drawing, a child tells us about their history, their relationships, about their fears, insecurities, joys, etc.. The drawing represents a very valuable field of expression and forms, along with the game, one of the main tools used by psychologists to examine a child.
Painting and drawing for the child is a true form of communication, so that through his creations can obtain an estimate of his personality.
The role and colors are chosen
Although we believe that the tools the child chooses them at random, this is far from being so. The carefully chosen and thoughtfully small implements with which will make your drawing.
Children who prefer pastel pencils, broad-tipped, usually have a determined personality, while children with more difficult to express and assert prefer fine-point pens.
With respect to the sheet, the size is related to the place you want to have the child in life. If you choose a large piece, you might think that this guy wants to be included and displayed within your circle. On the other hand, the choice of a small leaf tells of a child with a good ability to concentrate.
Talk about drawing
We often think that a child shows his drawing for us to approve and applaud how beautiful it is, but children often what they want to show his creation, and just share it with us, to communicate. Therefore, the best we can do when our children come with their creation, it is interesting for what they did and asking questions about the drawing. On the other hand, if the child does not want to talk about their work, we should not force him to do it, because it means that it is not necessary or important.
Signs that could alert
There are certain signs that can be found in the drawings of a child who could be a sign that something is not right.
* Refusal to draw constant and permanent.
* Are missing important parts of the picture repeatedly.
* Draw or hollow eyes, omitted in the drawing.
* Load over the pencil, making a path too thick or too stressing blackened areas.
* Make very small drawings on a piece that lends itself to more spacious designs.
* Repeatedly break their creations.
* Repeat the same drawings steadily for a long time.
* Failure to complete the shapes in the drawing, leaving these half-built.
Despite what many believe, find pictures with images of violence, or bloody genitalia is not necessarily an ominous sign, unless a repeat repeatedly.
Remember that the task of interpreting the drawings of a child is something that should be evaluated by a professional before making any conclusion or diagnosis.
The new animated series for children
Discovery Family, presents the exciting adventures of a fish, with the help of a diving suit filled with water, living between the “wet world” and “dry world,” seeking solutions to protect the environment.
This fun character with summerhouses friends, a girl named Marina and Zico monkey live in Echo Park Zoo, a mixture of amusement park and zoo where animals from different species live around the world, with different accents and ways of living. Astronaut and his companions are secret agents whose mission is to protect all the inhabitants, for which they have to figure out mysteries and solutions that help conserve the environment.
Aimed at children from 4 to 7 years old, the series has achieved great popularity in Latin America, explores the environment in a fun and interactive way, using vibrant colors and rhythmic melodies. In each episode, young viewers learn about the wonders of nature and its creatures, in order to awaken in them a love for the planet and environmental awareness.
As the protagonists resolve their cases, they reveal important information about the different creatures that cross their path, while sharing data to help understand the role they play within the nature and importance of conserving them.
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Children who Require more physical activity
Preschool children who attend day care centers currently do not spend enough time playing outdoors.
As reported by CNN, three-quarters of American children between the ages of 3 to 5 years who receive care in an institution, they need more physical activity, which provides an important tool both to prevent obesity, and to develop his body and their cognitive system.
As part of research, scientists talked with staff from 34 child care facilities in Cincinnati, and found that these places often emphasize more on learning in the classroom than outside it.
Among the reasons to be carried out this method, researchers found that parents and teachers sometimes fear the safety of children during the time of year so try to keep them busy indoors. Also, government’s own rules about play areas remain increasingly stringent which makes the process even more difficult.
Experts recommend that preschoolers get 90 to 120 minutes of daily activity and are taken out of the classroom or at home at least twice a day for healthy development of their minds and bodies.
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Family which is the main place to make a career
My best college was not the institution where I made my career but my family. I learned to speak, to pray, to love, to forgive, to work, to practice charity towards the poor, to respect their elders and so many other things. He was right and many could say the same.
God has willed it so. Parents, in fact, are those that transmit life to their children and make them other than the product of a factory or a laboratory but the fruit of their mutual love. Parents, in addition to biological life, convey and educate your children’s life in all its integrity, intellectual, emotional, social, ethical, spiritual, and so on. Parents are the first to discover their children, more with facts than with words-that they are worthy of their love for the mere fact of being children, irrespective of their qualities, shortcomings and defects. They are also the first to teach the children that are not the only people in the world or do not report to anybody, but are part of a large family: the human family.
For Christian parents, they ask for baptism for their children and enable them so they can join a new family, the Church. They worry that participate in parish catechists and accompanying them on the great events of his life: the day of the First Communion, Wedding, profession or priestly ordination. This action by the parents regarding the Christian faith and life of their children is so critical that can not be supplied by the school, parish or any other social institution.
At present, the family has opened many fronts, both in its social and spiritual. Are trying to change his own natural structure, and introduce a conception of laws of marriage and family against the nature of things. The transmission of life is regarded as a burden, if not oppression of women. The plagues of divorce and abortion are already a gigantic waves so severely threaten the very existence of so many nations.
The family, therefore, needs to defend itself and protect itself against these and many other negative factors. Moreover, you need to associate and join other families in order to propel a just family policy that responds to their rights, needs and dreams. This task is as urgent as urgent.
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Explaining death to children is difficult
It is very important that you contact the child death depending on the level of understanding of the child. Not the same the death of a grandparent to a child of 6 years for a child of 11 years. A 11 year old has a greater concept and knowledge to understand that a person is born and after a few years, dies. Therefore, the most important thing always catch up on what you know your child, ask what you know about death before speaking. As an example, the child is so spontaneous that will tell you that dying is to go to another place. If you do not understand so little else that this concept, we must continue down this path. Obviously, depending on the beliefs of each one must explain the death, but always taking into account what the child’s intellectual level, ie what the child knows about this issue.
Family and education
Teaching by example is more effective than talking to children. How can we teach standards of conduct for children in practice?
Clearly, the example is the best way a child learns. The child is set in an extraordinary way on what happens around him, is a sponge that is capturing everything from visual information to emotional. Therefore, when you see a quiet parents who can explain things well, you will see a quiet child who knows how to do things, and conversely, if you see a child restless, rude, do not look in the child, look at dads who are the ones that have failed, perhaps because of ignorance or because they do not have time to teach these rules correct the child.
Can we or should we be friends with our children?
There are many mothers, especially when a child reaches adolescence, you say “I’m the best friend of my daughter.” This is a mistake, you can not be friends with the children. The concept for a teenage friend is someone who would be confident to explain everything. The mother should follow the role of being a mother, the mother must have prepared this adolescence, which is prepared from childhood, teaching the child to communicate. It’s better half hour dinner together without the television, talking and explaining things, not three hours watching TV with a pizza and no one talk between them. This communication, if we stimulate and grow since the children are very young, when they reach adolescence, if they have a problem, have the ability to communicate to parents. But parents can not be friends with their children, have to follow the parenting role, and that means in adolescence to be someone who is prepared to fund or assist in any problems with the child, but the intricacies of the problem, it have to tell a friend.
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Method used to educate parents to raise children
Now in his latest book, Common Sense Pediatrics, Dr. Eduard Estivill just common sense appeal to raise and educate children. From their point of view, makes us reflect on some aspects of the education of children of great concern to the parents of the future as the friendship between parents and children, to the one shown for and against maintaining the role of parents.
Educating children for the future
Dr. Eduard Estivill, a pediatrician
What parents have changed now compared to before?
Parents today are better than before, the trouble is they have less time. Why do I say better? Because they are more interested in making things right, ask and read online. Therefore, given with great pleasure that books like this simply is based on scientific concepts are not personal opinions, but scientific knowledge very easily exposed. This book is a tribute to the parents of today. Dr. Gonzalo Pin is a pediatrician who has made the first and third of the book. In the first, explains all the physical and mental development of a child, and the third are all diseases that can have a child from birth through adolescence.
Why is it so important to establish the attachment in education?
The attachment is central to children’s emotional education. Should be established from the first day of birth, and not only the mother who must have this feeling that the child is close, but the father. For this, we recommend in our book that the father has also actively participates in all routines of caring for a newborn baby.
Children must learn to be and to be. Where does the education of children?
The education of children must always begin at home. The norms and values ??taught at home. In school, what to do, and they do very well, is to teach knowledge. The role of the school is to educate a child. When a child reaches two or three years to school and say good morning to know you have to know things in order, you should know it does not stick to peers, although sometimes they might miss a bite because it is natural. But if the child learns at home, at school, all they do is reinforce all these educational routines parents have already instilled in the child. The values ??also should be instilled at home, because if this trend there house to teach things well, even though the school decides to teach the child will never learn it.
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