Child Custody
Comparisons between the children who cause strife
According to personal tastes. Having one or more siblings often means a playmate in childhood.
It is common for parents, intentionally or not, conscious or not, make comparisons between their children. Keep in mind that each individual is unique as a human being and as a child, therefore we must avoid making comparisons between them.
Comparisons between brothers not only contribute nothing but help to be some tension between them.
Parents often unwittingly, often comparing notes from school, behavior and even the tastes of their children. Be very careful to avoid such comparisons.
Do not compare siblings
It may even happen that one of the children is the copy that you get the best grades, best behaved in relation to another that has a lower school performance.
All people have a natural tendency to compare, is part of our nature. It is necessary to make conscious and visible this condition to avoid any comparison between our kids.
One issue that both parents should talk to each other frequently and seen as a way to achieve a better upbringing of all children.
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Supervise children in order not to say dirty words
A curse or a taco usually arises when the child discovers and uses the power of language to express themselves. Chronologically, this circumstance can place between 3 and 5 years of age when the child goes to “school seniors.” It’s a stage they go through some children. However, a curse or a stick in the mouth of a child at this age, is “nothing” if stripped of the expressive burden it entails. When a child says “dumb” or “imbecile”, addressing his mother, does not want to convey the meaning of these words. Most likely you do because it is unable to find words like these to express their mood.
How to correct the use of profanity in children?
The swearing of children
What is important in these situations is that parents channel negative feelings and bad language of children with other forms of expression. What did you say? Ask a mother upset the son who just swore. Is this the best way to fight to avoid the children say bad words? What can parents do to the curses of our children, considering that each family puts the child in the limits considered acceptable, since not everyone “offend” the same words. Follow a few recommendations:
1. Give an example. If you do not want your child to say bad words, do not tell you. Moreover, what has not been heard can not be reproduced or imitated.
2. Avoid laugh or smile for any word. For more funny that may be an expression or a curse, laugh at it is wrong because it encourages the child to repeat it.
3. It explains simply and clearly that these words offend, annoy, which are not friendly and yes they say to him, nor did he like to be treated well.
4. Stay calm and do not give too much importance, since an excessive attitude affected by the adult can produce the opposite effect, ie the child feel that tacos are not the best way to draw attention from their parents. It is best to redirect this natural stage for swearing “lose their power” and its effect on the child.
5. Offers alternatives. Brings other words to a feeling or situation in which the child is. Every family can take the words of their cultural and social environment that are more appropriate. Teaching children, for example, it is better to say to his brother who is upset because you have broken the stroller, who call him “stupid” or “donkey”. Parents can invent some fun new word to replace one of the offensive.
6. It offers readings to increase the child’s vocabulary and help you discover new words, expressions, exclamations, … more fun. If the situation persists, maybe the parents should consider other causes, for example, if you give enough attention to the child or if they are being too rigid with their education. The child may be using insults just to get attention from their parents. It may be that if you behave if you do not do as much as when he misbehaves.